Successful human relations is so important that I have learned from this amazing book ‘Skill with People’. Listening carefully, praising people, thank them, skillfully agree with them etc. I would like to share this with you all so that you can understand it and apply it in your life and you will get benefit from it. So, let’s get started.
- What happens, often whenever we want to share something with the person in front, he/she does not listen or he/she turns down on one of your business proposal, right? Or if someone in front feels that you do not talk to him/her properly. Well, in this book there are answers to all these questions, which I will tell you in short.
- First, and the most important part is, we need to understand people and their nature. It is not that easy nor difficult but you have to. And for this, the most important thing is to know why people are doing what they are doing? You know who do you like the most? Yourself first. A person takes interest in himself/herself 10,000 times instead of you.
- Second, How to skillfully talk to people – when you are talking to people, choose the topic of their choice and the topic of their choice is none other than themselves. When you talk about someone in front, you are giving the right direction to Human Nature. So as much as possible, let the person in front talk according to his/him interest.
- Third, How to skillfully make people feel important – Whether it is a student or a housewife or a Job person or a Businessman, everyone wants to be honored made to feel important. So let’s understand it with some examples. 1. Listen to the other person – listen carefully and understand what he wants to say. 2. Appreciate the person in front, speak positive words to him. 3. Get their name and picture in mind as much as you can, they will love you.
- Forth. How to skillfully agree with people – It has often been seen that some things which we know that particular thing is true, but the person in front of us, not accepting it and then we start arguing with them. Why not better let the person in front of us, save his honor and make his point known? Get yourself into a frame of mind, an attitude of being agreeable. Let people know you agree with them.
Well, I talked about some important human skills in this Part I. I hope you enjoyed reading this and I would like you to definitely apply these methods while talking to someone and tell me later what changes you felt. You can also tell me your views by commenting below. I have put the link of this book below if you want to read it.
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